Hi all, I’m taking a momentary break from straight relationship advice to talk about some health.
I’ve had people approach me in the past, especially recently, and ask me how they can lose weight. Instantly a million points of advice come flooding into my brain and it’s hard to give them an eloquent answer without inundating them with healthy tips. So, here’s my solution, I’ll just start doing segments, and you all can pick and choose what works with your life. This article is, however, some basics that are very necessary to getting not only the perfect body for your genetics, but also, breaking any unhealthy habits only to form ones that will just make your life better. That’s all you want to be, right? :]
Step 1: A look in the mirror…
This is important. You, sitting right there reading this, pay attention. I want you to find an old notebook, maybe even some loose paper that you can staple together, and for the next week write down EVERYTHING that goes into your body. Write quantities as best you can. You can use references like “a handful of granola”, as long as it makes sense to you exactly what amounts of each of these you’re eating. Also, write the time of day.
Reasoning: I’ll tell you right now, that until I tried this, I had no idea what I was putting into my body. We’re always busy, always running from one place to another. We don’t have time to eat healthy, well-balanced meals, nor do we want to even deal with that along with all the stress from our jobs and school. We just know that this is a problem that we want fixed. Now.
Well, of course, it’s not that simple. Unfortunately, based on your metabolism you often won’t see the fruits of your labor, or the detriment of your lackadaisical demeanor until about a month later. Yep. It can take longer or shorter for your body to adjust, but just realize that it’s a lot of effort for an even greater pay-off.
The importance of this step is to re-write the relationship you have with food. Really. Start reading labels. Start paying attention to what times of the day that you eat. Not all of us have time to “eat 6 times a day” as many studies suggest, so we have to make-do the best we can. Above anything, just make the choice to be better. You owe it to yourself and you deserve to feel good.
Step 2: DRINK WATER!!!
Yes, I’m yelling it to you from my apartment in Normal Heights. Water is pretty much what we’re made of. Think about that. Studies vary on how much water you should drink a day. The “10 glasses” approach is always a good idea, but hard to remind ourselves. This is why I recommend going to your local supermarket and purchasing one of those half-gallon jugs of water. With the handle. They’ll last you about 2 weeks of refills, and then you can recycle. Carry it around with you, spike it with lemon juice, either way, you’ll see your jug of water with you and drink more due to proximity.
In the beginning, you’ll have to go to the bathroom a lot. Your bladder isn’t used to being so full. But once your body gets used to accepting so much hydration, it will use more and your bladder won’t be as active.
Reasoning: The reason for the water thing as far as losing weight is a triple-threat. Water not only allows you to function better as a living, breathing, human body, but you also will feel less bloated. Bloating usually occurs when you ingest too much salt. Anyone in any biology or chemistry class will learn that your body is used to a specific amount of salt at all times. Any more and it has to hold on to water to dilute the salt, which, unchecked, could cause your cells to be damaged or not work properly. Processed food is over-salted, over-spiced, and well, will make you feel bloated. Drinking more water will prove to instantly slim you down a little because your body can recalibrate.
Finally, another important thing to know about water pertains to thirst. Your body doesn’t differentiate thirst from hunger sometimes. So while you think you’re hungry, you may just want a glass of water. Try downing a few cups next time you feel like a burger. It’s like magic, haha.
Step 3: Eat heathy whenever you can…
Starting today, I want you to treat nutrient-rich, unprocessed food like it’s something that is hard to come by. Whenever you get a chance to eat an apple, or down some broccoli, or perhaps graw on a carrot and pretend you’re Bugs Bunny, do it. Especially if you’re busy. Throw some fruit or a bag of cut veggies into your bag/purse before you leave in the morning. Try to fit something healthy and unprocessed into every meal. Seriously, it makes a difference. Not only will it keep you from hitting up the vending machine, but also, you’ll just feel better. Did you know an apple can give you as much of a sustained pick-me-up as a cup of coffee?
Reasoning: We need to change the way we see fresh food. We need to change the way we see convenience. With a little planning, we can make very good choices with what we put in our system. All if takes is the desire to do better for yourself. The more acquainted with vegetables, fruits, lean proteins, and whole grains, the better we will be able to live.
Step 4: Go vegetarian for most of your meals
This one was hard for me. I’m very much so a ‘meat and potatoes’ girl. I love my steaks and my burgers. That’s why when I started to come across more and more evidence that eating a mostly vegetarian diet leads to less weight issues, and less health problems, I had to reconsider. And get this, you’ll live longer too.
The way to go about this is to just buy less meat. I keep a bag of boneless, skinless chicken breast in my freezer so I can add it to a meal when I feel like it, but for the most part, I pick up veggies and grains for food.
Reasoning: We’re so used to our protein to be the centerpiece of a meal and we need to change that. If you do opt for some meat, go organic. Make it a ‘treat’ where you get the best cut you can and thoroughly enjoy it. Quality over quanitity. Also, when you do have a serving, make sure it’s not bigger than about the size of a deck of cards. I know that I personally have eaten a steak that seemed to fill my plate. Scale it back and up the veggies and brown rice and that’s the smart way to do it. You’ll feel more satisfied with the complex carbohydrates introduced into your meal, and the necessary fiber and other nutrients will keep you feeling light.
Part 2 will have more tips on getting on track. You can do it. Just remember, it takes 3 weeks to make a habit and only 3 days to break one. Lets show our diets that THIS IS SPARTAAAAAAAAHHH!
As always, comments and personal stories are greatly appreciated.